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Day #- 3- Blog's real test...

It is generally said tht any thing which is created has to pass thru certain tests... It was the day three for liveankit, the statistics and comments have to say many things, 370 hits , Lot more than yesterdays 186... , Dont worry , today i was xtreeemeeeeelllllllyyyy free, so around 100 hits would be mine.... 

RESPONSE SEEMS TO BE GOOD , THE STATS SAY SO, But it can be a fluke... any product when launched gets a curiousity response... The Real test has begun now... What matters is conversation, hw many ppl come again to blog? who all are writing comments? whether the blog is solving any purpose?? all these things are yet to tested and tried.. Writing a blog takes a lot from u, specially the time, so it is to be seen tht the blog is actually helpin anyone or it is just makin fun of time, news and designs...Well, i have a new poll too..

Its 09:30 PM IST,  finally writing the last post of the day,we discussed abt the scenario of rupee depreciation, really a grreattt prob which the country is facing... Well problems are part of life, be it of the economy or be it related to person... 

I started off bloggin with stupid stories of mine and continuing it repetitively for the day #3... The Day started with a long conversations with my best friends and peers , its just too good to be in continuous conversation with them, As it was sunday i had huge plans, ++++" Huge plans" , planning to write,planned to do.. ++++ , u have come across these phrases many times, because i m good at making plans, because what i find lacking in the definition of plan is ... it never says abt completion and implementation... :-):-) , Huge plans actually took a formal shape with dreamy ultra optimal SlEEPS.. Then entered into the evening phase... it is generally the most occupied part of the day..!! why??? as saara pending day ka kaam poora bhi to karna hotaa hai.. :-):-)

On Sunday i officially end this weekend ... with lot many things to learn and gain, i am happy as i got to know something which can sorttt the issues amongst my peers,Forget my stories.. if u sit with me, i am sure i'll not stopp, m good at making long talkkss.. bt nt on phone... this is wht ppl complain.. 

Now after reaching to this paragraph of the post, u'll be inquisitive,muddled and literally angry, NO ?? dont u think so??? yes i guess,  because like me u would be thinking tht why u r reading this post with deep concentration :-):-) , i m saying so because i m feeling the same in writin, i mean why i m wrtng, what all i wrote?? anything of use?? etc.. all these rebuttals are comin in my mind....  The idea behind the creation of blog was to keep u guys updated with many things not telling my pakauuu stories... :) 

So Let me end up this post with some positive note and learning, fw years back i came across one article on economic times, tht i found very interesting and a source of learning,, it ws written by some reknowned Spiritual Guru, definately the article made sense, its not easy to be a part of ET..

The article said-Why we cant tolerate Criticism

Few lines of the text were... 

  A lady came to me complaining that she is hurt by even small criticisms coming from others. She said she was very sensitive.I asked her to stop using that word. I said, 'You are not sensitive. A really sensitive person will be porous; she will allow the words to pass through her. Only arrogant people get hurt. If you are hurt, please understand that you are arrogant. You are strong like a stone, which is why words come and hit you.'

A sensitive person would have allowed the words pass through her; she will never suffer. Even if someone is deliberately rude, a sensitive person understands where such a person is coming from and is not defensive.


Suffering is always from arrogance, never from sensitivity. A person who is sensitive will never suffer. A sensitive person will suffer on account of another person in distress, not for oneself.


What ET said and i derived from it: 

  • Please don't cheat yourself with words. Let your words be unfiltered by your ego.
  • You suffer from words when you stop them, when you resist them, when you create your own meaning out of them. 
  • When we do not create our own meanings out of words, we do not suffer. We play with words. 
  • We always choose nice words to support our ego. 
  • We do not say, 'I am hurt because I am arrogant.'We always use polished words such as, 'I am hurt because I am sensitive.'
Dont forget to add comments....Ankit

Comments

M_U_K_U_N{U_V} said…
Realy boss its ral i found it after reading ur Post..
thnx for opening the way to live life more comfortably....
M_U_K_U_N{U_V} said…
ya it consumes a lot of Time sir...


For searching and making a complete draft for info..


But still it provides us with InformTion na..
so keep it working
Unknown said…
ankit really the article which u have placed teaches us something......is d article is trying to say that arrogance leads to criticism.......do tell me yes or no.....
Ankit Gupta said…
Yes.... Rightttt ...it says abt arrogance... i liked d concepttttt
Anonymous said…
yeh tumne pehle bhi sunaya tha na mujhe ek baar???
Anonymous said…
par ab to tum phn par bhi bht der baat kar lete hooooo:):)
Anonymous said…
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Anonymous said…
aaj maine achhe se pada.. its really great....nd true...
Anonymous said…
aur sach me mujhe laga kitne galat hote hain hum:(
Ankit Gupta said…
Yes... i remember.. i told u once..!!! par... u didnt get it..!!
Ankit Gupta said…
Thanks.. and keep on writin comments..

Thanks [:)]
jags said…
Beautiful.........
d concept u hav tkn z so clos 2 d real life...........
We must say thanx.........New lssns each day....

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